n hear it。
A throbbing pain courses through my fingers； and it reminds me that we have not held hands with fingers interlocked since we moved here。 I am sad about this； but it is my fault； not hers。 It is arthritis in the worst form； rheumatoid and advanced。 My hands are misshapen and grotesque now； and they throb through most of my waking hours。 But every day I take her hands despite the pain； and I do my best to hold them because that is what she wants me to do。
Although the Bible says man can live to be a hundred and twenty； I don't want to； and I don't think my body would make it even if I did。 It is falling apart； steady erosion on the inside and at the joints。 My kidneys are beginning to fail and my heart rate is decreasing every month。 Worse； I have cancer again； this time of the prostate。 This is my third bout with the unseen enemy； and it will take me eventually； though not till I say it is time。 The doctors are worried about me； but I am not。 I have no time for worry in this twilight of my life。
Of our five children； four are still living； and though it is hard for them to visit； they e often； and for this I am thankful。 But even when they aren't here； they e alive in my mind every day； each of them； and they bring to mind the smiles and tears that e with raising a family。 A dozen pictures line the walls of my room。 They are my heritage； my contribution to the world。 I am very proud。 Sometimes I wonder what my wife thinks of them as she dreams； or if she thinks of them at all； or if she even dreams。 There is so much about her I don't understand any more。
〃My name；〃 I say； 〃is Duke。〃 I have always been a John Wayne fan。
〃Duke；〃 she whispers to herself； 〃Duke。〃 She thinks for a moment； her forehead wrinkled； her eyes serious。
〃Yes；〃 I say； 〃I'm here for you。〃 And always will be； I think to myself。
She flushes with my answer。 Her eyes bee wet and red； and tears begin to fall。 My heart aches for her； and I wish for the thousandth time that there was something I could do。
She says； 〃I'm sorry。 I don't understand anything that's happening to me right now。 Even you。 When I listen to you talk I feel like I should know you； but I don't。 I don't even know my name。〃 She wipes at her tears and says； 〃Help me； Duke； help me remember who I am。 Or at least； who I was。 I feel so lost。〃
I answer from my heart； but I lie to her about her name。 As I have about my own。 There is a reason for this。
〃You are Hannah； a lover of life； a strength to those who shared in your friendships。 You are a dream； a creator of Happiness； an artist who has touched a thousand souls。 You've led a full life and wanted for nothing； because your needs are spiritual and you have only to look inside you。 You are kind and loyal； and you are able to see beauty where others do not。 You are a teacher of wonderful lessons； a dreamer of better things。〃
She does not respond。 Instead she stares at me for a long while； until our breathing coincides。 In。 Out。 In。 Out。 In。 Out。 Deep breaths。 I wonder if she knows I think she's beautiful。
〃Would you stay with me a while？〃 she finally asks。
I smile and nod。 She smiles back。 She reaches for my hand； takes it gently and pulls it to her waist。 She stares at the hardened knots that deform my fingers and caresses them gently。 Her hands are still those of an angel。
〃e；〃 I say as I stand with great effort； 〃let's go for a walk。 The air is crisp and the goslings are waiting。 It's beautiful today。〃 I am staring at her as I say these last few words。 She blushes。 It makes me feel young again。
SHE WAS FAMOUS； of course。 One of the best southern painters of the twentieth century； some said； and I was； and am； proud of her。 Unlike me； who struggled to write even the simplest of verses； my wife could create beauty as easily as the Lord created the earth。 Her paintings are in museums around the world； but I have kept only two for myself。 The first one she ever gave me and the last one。 They hang in my room； and late at night I sit and stare and sometimes cry when I look at them。 I don't know why。
And so the years passed。 We led our lives； working； painting； raising children； loving each other。 I see photos of Christmases； family trips； of graduations and of weddings。 I see grandchildren and happy faces。 I see photos of us； our hair growing whiter； the lines in our faces deeper。 A lifetime that seems so typical； yet unmon。
We could not foresee the future； but then who can？ I do not live now as I expected to。 But I am not bitter。 Our lives can't be measured by our final years； of this I am sure； and I guess I should have known what lay ahead。 Looking back； I suppose it seems obvious； but at first I thought her confusion understandable and not unique。 She would forget where she placed her keys； but who has not done that？ She would forget a neighbour's name； but not someone we knew well or with whom we socialized。 Sometimes she would write the wrong year when she made out her cheques； but again I dismissed it as simple mistakes that one makes when thinking of other things。
It was not until the more obvious events occurred that I began to suspect the worst。 An iron in the freezer； clothes in the dishwasher； books in the oven。 Other things； too。 But the day I found her in the car three blocks away； crying over the steering wheel because she couldn't find her way Home； was the first day I was really frightened。 And she was frightened； too； for when I tapped on her window； she turned to me and said； 〃Oh God； what's happening to me？ Please help me。〃 A knot twisted in my stomach； but I dared not think the worst。
Six days later the doctor saw her and began a series of tests。 I did not understand them then and I do not understand them now； but I suppose it is because I am afraid to know。 She spent almost an hour with Dr。 Barnwell； and she went back the next day。 That day was the longest day I have ever spent。
Finally he called us both into his office and sat us down。 She held my arm confidently； but I remember clearly that my own hands were shaking。
〃I'm so sorry to have to tell you this；〃 Dr。 Barnwell began； 〃but you seem to be in the early stages of Alzheimer’s。。。”
The words echoed in my head： the early stages of Alzheimer’s…
My world spun in circles； and I felt her grip tighten on my arm。 She whispered； almost to herself： 〃Oh； Noah 。 。 。 Noah 。 。 。”
And tears started to fall。 It is a barren disease； as empty and lifeless as a desert。 It is a thief of hearts and souls and memories。 I did not know what to say to her as she sobbed on my bosom； so I simply held her and rocked her back and forth。
The doctor was grim。 He was a good man； and this was hard for him。 He was younger than my youngest； and I felt my age in his presence。
We rocked to and fro； and Allie； my dream； my timeless beauty； told me she was sorry。 I knew there was nothing to forgive； and I whispered in her ear。 〃Everything will be fine；〃 I whispered； but inside I was afraid。 I was a hollow man with nothing to offer。
I remember only bits and pieces of Dr。 Barnwell's continuing explanation。
〃It's a degenerative brain disorder affecting memory and personality。 。 。 there is no cure or therapy 。 。 。 there's no way to tell how fast it will progress 。。。 it differs from person to person。 。。。 I wish I knew more。 。 。 。 Some days will be better than others。 。。。 It will grow worse with the passage of time。 。 。 。 I'm sorry 。 。 。〃
Everyone was sorry。 Our children were brokenhearted； our friends were scared for themselves。 I don't remember leaving the doctor's office； and I don't remember driving Home。 My memories of that day are gone； and in this my wife and I are the same。
It has been four years now。 Since then we have made the best of it； if that is possible。 Allie organized； as was her disposition。 She made arrangements to leave the house and move here。 She rewrote her will and sealed it。 She left specific burial instructions； and they sit in my desk； in the bottom drawer。 I have not seen them。 And when she was finished； she began to write。 Letters to friends and children。 Letters to brothers and sisters and cousins。 Letters to nieces； nephews and neighbours。 And a letter to me。
I read it sometimes when I am