以前我从未跟您说过这件事，但就在我那次烘烤惨剧发生之后，您亲爱的妈妈告诉了我一个秘密，她曾经送给您一只高压锅作为结婚礼物。您第一次使用的时候，将定时器定在了“高”，结果您做的鸡肉成了厨房顶上电灯装置的一部分。外婆告诉我说，爸爸用了整整一个星期才把天花板擦干净。所以，我仅仅是少了一些面部的毛发而已。
您的妈妈一定没有责备过您，因为这么多年了，我做了太多蠢事，但是您从未教训或惩罚过我。您说“做任何事都是一个学习的过程”，我是一个小孩，想象力活跃，而且有自己的想法。
我想我还是老样子，妈妈，当您的两个外孙女也要挣脱我的束缚时，我也努力这样做了。她们现在都很好，不过她们非常思念您。她们两个在各自的卧室都有一张您的照片。您的5个曾孙们永远也忘不了他们的“弗吉尼亚外婆”。 。。
生日的承诺（2）
您总是为我的女儿们感到骄傲。您决不会放过任何一个机会告诉我，我培养她们的工作做得多么成功。我想让您知道，您所说的话，对我来说是多么重要，如果没有您，我不可能做到这些。
您的外孙女们拥有您的温柔和刚强。记得有一次，大女儿决定要离家出走。她在晚餐时宣布她要离开这里，去跟住在6个街区之外的祖父母一起生活，理由是我 “太刻薄”了。我想把她锁在房间里，可是您建议说我应该让她自行解决这个问题，还说这会是一次学习的经历。后来，她收拾了一大箱行李，结果仅仅走了3 个街区就累倒在附近的一家面包房的门口。店主用一辆运送面包的卡车把她送回了家，还给了她一打油炸圈饼。直到现在，她还用一种滑稽的眼神看我。
妈妈，您认为她那天学到的是在长途旅行时要精简装备吗？不过，还是很有效果的。她太累了，已经忘记了为什么生气，而且肚子里还塞满了油炸面圈，她已经不在乎其他了。
最近，您的另一个外孙女正在看你们两个一起旅行时您拍的照片。我忘记了那一年你们去了多少个国家。但是我仍然记得我曾经接到的那个电话，依稀发生在昨天。您在电话里说您必须停止在夏威夷的假期，因为您在怀基基海滩上被一只冲浪板撞伤了，腿部缝了20针。您的外孙女一整夜都在照看着您。第二天早上，她独自安排好了返程的事务。那年她才13岁，您为她感到骄傲。
如今，当我看到我的女儿们也成为了优秀的母亲时，我也有了这种感觉，妈妈。
说到您的曾外孙们，我能说的就是他们始终神采奕奕；如果并非如此，那就是我已经年迈了。我的梳妆台上摆放着一张全家福，每个人看起来都非常开心，我们现在依旧很开心。我觉得，您会喜欢听到这些。没有了您，我感到很艰难，但是我想我们最终会妥善安排好一切的。
很晚了，我们先告一段落吧。明年，我们会再来的，我保证。
生日快乐，妈妈。
时光荏苒，无论我们在怎样的环境和形势下活着，总难以忘记母亲对我们的爱，如果你的母亲已经离你远去，不要悲哀，因为母亲的音容笑貌依然清晰、和蔼。母亲已经成为你的记忆中的永恒风景。
The Birthday Promise
Anne Carter
Today； as promised； Mother； we’re going to spend some quality time together。
I awoke at 5：45 A。 M。 as you had done for so many years。 I put on your tattered bathrobe that I thought I had discarded。 I was pleased I hand’t； because your favorite scent； Tabs； still permeates its fibers。 I stuffed my feet into your slippers and was glad that they were open in the front to acmodate my longer toes。 Now； we’re together again。 At least it feels that way to me。
It’s been a very long year； Mom； and I miss you so much。 But I’m doing okay。 Well； I’m trying； and you always told me that’s what counts。
I know you enjoyed an early breakfast； and I’ve got all your favorites。 Most of the world drinks coffee or tea in the morning。 You drank soda：“Coke—a—Cola。” as you called it。 You told me it was a Southern custom。 I never believed that for a moment； even though you were born and raised in Virginia。 I think you needed a sugar high to start the day。 It was a tough choice； but I decided on the peanut butter crackers for the main course—handmade； not the packaged ones； spread one at a time straight form the jar and pressed together like an Oreo cookie。
生日的承诺（3）
The birds have started to sing outside； and the sun is announcing the beginning of another new day。 Right about now； you would have turned on your radio and tuned into your favorite radio station。 Here goes！。。。 Guess what？ They’re playing one of your favorite songs。 “Thad Old Black Magic。 ”
Peanut butter isn’t all that bad in the morning！Do you remember when you used to feed my German shepherd peanut butter crackers？ How she loved you for that！ The peanut butter would get stuck to the roof of her mouth and made her look like she was smiling。 You always had such a way with animals。
That brings to mind the time my beloved parakeet； Buckeye Bird； flew into the frying pan while you were cooking breakfast。 I warn’t supposed to let him out of his cage； but I had； and he burned his feet。 I thought you’d be so mad at me。 but all you could think about was getting medical attention for that poor bird。 The pharmacist thought you were nuts when you asked what brand of antibiotic cream he would remend to rub on a parakeet’s feet。
Speaking of funny animal stories； do you recall when my pet hamster； Brownie； got stuck in the dryer hose？ You called Sears； where you’d purchased the clothes dryer； to ask how we might get him out of the predicament。 They told you to turn on the machine； and the initial thrust of air would push him through。 We did； and Brownie the Hamster Cannonball flew through the air。 Daddy caught him in his baseball glove。 It was hard to believe； but the exploding hamster lived to see another day！
Which reminds me。。。 do you recollect the time I blew up the stove while trying to earn my Girl Scout cooking badge？ It took a year for my eyebrows and eyelashes to grow back。 You slept with me that night and told me that it warn’t my fault。 Still； it was a long time before you left me alone in the kitchen。
I never told you this before； but after my baking fiasco； your own dear mother shared with me a secret about the pressure cooker she’d given you as a wedding gift。 The first time you used it； you’d set the timer to“high” and your chicken dinner became part of the kitchen light fixture。 Grandma told me it took Daddy a week to scrape it off the ceiling。 At least I only lost facial hair。
Your mother must not have criticized you； because you never lectured or punished me for all the foolish things I did through the years。 You said that everything was a learning experience and that as a child I had an active imagination and marched to my own drummer。
I think I’m still that way； Mom。 And that is exactly what I try to focus on when your two granddaughters are yanking my chain。 They’re doing fine； but they miss you。 Both of them keep a photo of you in their living rooms。 The great…grandchildren； all five of them。 will never forget their “Nana Virginia。”书包 网 。 想看书来
生日的承诺（4）
You were always so proud of my girls。 You never missed a chance to tell me what a good job I was doing in bringing them up。 I want you to know how much your saying that meant to me and that I couldn’t have done it without you。
Your granddaughters both have your tenderness and your tenacity。 I remember the time the oldest one decided to run away from home。 She announced over dinner that she was leaving to go live with her grandparents； six blocks away； because I was much “too mean。” I wanted to lock the kid in her room。 You suggested that I let her work it out on her own； that it would be a learning experience。 She packed such a heavy suitcase； she made it just three blocks before she collapsed in front of the neighborhood bakery。 The owner drove her home in the bread truck and gave her a dozen doughnuts。 He still looks at me in a funny way。
Mom； do you think the lesson she learned that day was to always pack light when traveling a distance？ It worked； though。 She was too tired to recall why she was angry and too full of ideally doughnuts to care。
Recently； your other granddaughter was looking at all the pictures you’d taken when the two of you had traveled together。 I’d forgotten how many countries you’d visited over the years。 I do remember； like it was yesterday； the call got saying that you had to cut short your Hawaiian vision because you’d been hand by a surfboard on the beach at Waikiki and received twenty stitches in your leg。 Your granddaughter stayed up all night and tended to your needs。 In the morning； she made all the flight arrangements to get you home。 She was only thirteen years old。 You were so proud of her。
I know that feeling today； Mom； when I see what wonderful mothers my daughters have bee。
As for your